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		<title>WHAT OPTIONS ARE THERE WHEN NEGOTIATING DURING A DIVORCE?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>HOW DOES THE DIVORCE PROCESS START?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:59:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>WHAT HAPPENS AFTER MY SPOUSE HAS BEEN SERVED DIVORCE PAPERS?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 23:14:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>HOW DOES THE DIVORCE PROCESS WORK?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:16:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Watson Cyr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The divorce process is basically comprised of four phases:  Commencement Phase, Information Gathering Phase, Settlement Phase and Trial Phase.   Phase 1 is the beginning or commencement stage.  A divorce is commenced by the personal service on the other spouse of documents called the Summons and Petition for Dissolution.  Service of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">The divorce process is basically comprised of four phases:  Commencement Phase, Information Gathering Phase, Settlement Phase and Trial Phase.   Phase 1 is the beginning or commencement stage.  A divorce is commenced by the personal service on the other spouse of documents called the Summons and Petition for Dissolution.  Service of the Summons and Petition can be accomplished by a third party delivering the papers to the spouse or if the spouse is willing to acknowledge receipt of the papers by signing an “Admission of Service”, the papers can be delivered through the mail. </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">After the Summons and Petition have been properly served, the spouse will have 30 days to serve upon the initiating spouse his or her Answer to the claims in the Petition.</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">The second phase of the divorce process is the informational gathering stage.  During this phase, information </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">is </span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">gathered and exchanged regardi</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">ng such things as the assets and liabilities of the parties, incomes and monthly expenses.   Lawyers are able to procure the necessary information through process of either formal or informal requests for documents and information.  Sometimes depositions of the parties are taken to gather information but generally the needed information is obtained through written requests for information.  This stage is often referred to as the “discovery” stage.</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">Phase 3 of the divorce process is the Settlement Phase.  During this phase, settlement of the issues will be attempted through negotiation or by employing some form of alternative dispute resolution (ADR).  The most common form of ADR is mediation.  This is a process where a neutral third party assists the parties along with their lawyers in reaching settlement of the issues.  Mediation is a confidential process and the mediator does not have any decision-making authority.</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">The fourth phase is the Trial Phase.  If the parties are unable to reach a settlement of all their disputed issues either through negotiation or some form of ADR, then any unresolved issues will be decided by a judge after a trial.  A trial is a process where each party is given the opportunity to present testimony and evidenc</span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">e on the disputed issues to a judge who then makes a decision for the parties.  Most cases never get to the trial phase due to settlement which is quite fortunate since the Trial Phase is very expense due to the great deal of preparation needed for a trial.</span></span></p>
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		<title>THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEDIATION &amp; ARBITRATION</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 23:11:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO GET A DIVORCE?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 15:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Watson Cyr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If all issues are undisputed, a divorce can be completed in as little as a few weeks. If there are major disputes that need to be litigated in court, the divorce can take many months. On average, a divorce that settles out of court takes two to five months. A divorce that requires a court [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt;"><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">If all issues are undisputed, a divorce can be completed in as little as a few weeks. </span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">If there are major disputes that need to be litigated in court, th</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">e divorce can take many months. </span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">On average, a divorce that settles out of court takes two to five months.</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">A divorce that requires a court trial takes, on average</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">,</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"> twelve to eighteen months.</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"> The amount of time it takes to obtain a divorce depends on the specific</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">s</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"> of the case</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">; however, there are ways to help speed up the process.</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0pt;"><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">Most cases settle before trial during the settlement phase of the divorce proceeding.  The sooner the parties have gathered and exchanged the information needed to start settlement </span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">negotiations;</span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"> the sooner </span></span><span style="color: #3b2314; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">settlement may be achieved.  Thus, parties can substantially affect the length of a divorce proceeding depending on the level of cooperation in gathering and providing the information requested by the other party.  Not only does being obstinate in responding to information requests hinder settlement, but that type of conduct could result in sanctions being imposed by the assigned judge.</span></span></p>
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